Why We Don't Get a Debate

Why are we subjected to this idiocy that is not perpetuated by the candidates but by the idiot media folk who cannot listen nor respond to what the candidates or the people want which is to really debate the topics and to talk.
I am embarrassed to say, I cannot stand to listen to the likes of Wolf Blitzer and the other people asking questions tonight. It is as if they are more interested in their own reputations and standing tall against the candidates and pushing their own ideas around than in any kind of real debate between the people who are actually going to try and run this country.
It is frightening to listen to this kind of idiotic grandstanding. I cannot bear it and would love to see the debates taken over by the candidates themselves and have them pick the topics, end this one-word answer without the proper context to tell the people listening why you are saying what you are saying along with the real disorganization of the questioning.
This is not a reasonable way to choose or to learn, it is like scrambling every idea and having it chopped and diced by the media and then asking the candidates to make sense of the insanity and not just talk in the abstract but in terms of the substance.